SATURDAY AND A FUN PARTY

 As planned, Vickie picked me up at 12:45 and off we went to the anniversary party. It was a lot of fun--about thirty people came, many of whom I had met three years ago at Lewis'es birthday party . Here are the host and hostess, Lewis and Sharon:

                                                  

Vickie and I had put together to get a large cheese/vegetable platter with dip and there was an enormous amount of other food, all delicious. It included ribs, fried chicken, spaghetti and meat sauce, vegetables, macaroni and cheese, and more. For dessert, there was cake, pie, and cookies; for drinks, soda, iced tee, wine, and beer. And oh, yes, I ate too much!

Here's Chausis, one of the sons.

Guests included my friend, Cheryl, who picks me up for Soaring Spirits; Sharn's sister-in-law, Deena, who came frolm Phoenix; and Chery's husband, George, active in Veterans for Peace.

After we said goodbye. Vickie asked if I'd like to see her new home, to which she'll move on December 14 and sure I would. It's veterans' apartments and isn't far from The Orchard. The complex is only three years old, in a nice rural area with lovely views. One bedroom, one bath, and a full kitchen. It will save her a lot of money, as she pays amost three thousand at SoFi, a rediculous amount for a modest place.

When I got back to my place, it was after 5:00. I could have gone to dinner, but was so stuffed from the party, I didn't bother. Settled in for the night and slept well.

Ellen called to say she'll bring over the invitations today. That's okay, but she could wait until later. I slept well and just got up at--gadsooks!--nine o'clock!

FRIDAY AND A DAY OF MUSIC

Remarkably, my weight was down at home by 2.2 pounds (to 142) and at T.O.P.S. by 2.1 (to 143). That would have been reason for great rejoicing except for the fact that I was up so high last week. Oh, well. Here's Sharon with her Japan outfit, which she said she chose expecially for me:                              

Home, I took a short nap, then went to lunch. Ate with Kathie, Paula, and LaVerne; Denise was out and Pat sat elsewhere. It was fried chicken and looked pretty good, but I had the Santa Fe salad and took half home.

Went to Happy Hour at 2:00 and enjoyed a Margarita while being wowed by the fabulous Dynatic Duo:

He's a marvelous keyboarder!

When I got back to my place, I saw that George Wimberg had called and I immediately called him back. He's still semi-active in the undertaking business, along with his son and grandson and is in good physical shape. Considering he turned ninety in July, that's pretty good. Unfortunately, his wife, Marilyn, is not good. She's in an assisted living facility with some kind of dementia--I'm not sure if it's Alzheimer's or not. We had a great tiime catching up and will keep in touch. 

Had dinner with the usuals, including Pat; it was gumbo and cornbread, which I thought was pretty good. What happened after was unprecedented in my experience: Mindy announced there would be a ballet troupe in an hour. I went to that and was so glad I did, as it was lovely:

It was a great, unexpected pleasure and we all enjoyed the musical day so much. It was such a contrast: the Dynamic Duo singing the fifties hits and the beautiful young girls dancing to the classic Nutcracker. As for me, I loved them both. 

THURSDAY

I took a load of color wash to the laundry room, but the closest one was in use, so I went to the other wing. Wrapped the modest birthday present for Kathie and took it to her place on the third floor. Didn't do too much else of note until going down to lunch.

When I got to the dining room, I was delighted to see thar Chef Mike had extended our usual table with another, so six could sit comfortably. This was at our request and we all thanked him for it. (Now to see if others try to usurp it.) Lunch was tilapia and sides and was yummy. I gave Doo-Lannie her gift--today is her last day--and she was very appreciative. 

At 2:00, I went down to the "Balance" presentation. In this case, it meant balance in the food we eat and it was good. Chef Mike featured whole grains and, besides wine, several different kinds of bread were served. They were all delicious and were accompanied to pepper jack cheese, ripe olivees, butter, and  a yummy creamy spinach and cream cheese spread. I ate two there and took several home to enjoy later. 

Lazed around after until dinner.  We sat at our new table; Kathie, Pat, Paula, and Denise were there, and Bea joined us. LaVerne didn't show for either lunch or dinner. It was good, though: turnkey meatballs, sweet potatoes, and green beans.

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   Betty and me on our front porch, c. 1950:

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Mom and me on our lawn on Easter, on our lawn, c. 1952:

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WEDNESDAY

I went to balance class at 10:00, then asked Frances on the desk to copy my contract letter for the power of attorney thing. She did and I had one for me and each of my daughters. If we decide they want it, I could Message a copy to the boys.  

Called SCAN to tell them I had lost my OTC credit card; they'll send another, as I have $140 waiting to be spent. 

There was a "Veterans' Tribute" at 11:00 which I did not attend; as a pacifist, that would have been hypocritical of me. Of course, I remember when it was called "Armistist Day," commemerating peace, not war, but our controllers changed that to focus on the exact opposite. Met my friends after for lunch.  

I came acoss this Instagram of my nephew, Betty's son, Steve, who writes for the on-line magazine Lifehacker:

 https://www.instagram.com/?target_user_id=52143297809&ndid=65ff6bd24a2bfHc23fb9511H65ff706baa591H5e&utm_sour

Ellen came at three and we had a long talk about private matters. I'm glad she was able to bare her emotioins and stresses to me. We indulged in several hours of intimate talk, both of us being emotional, but that was all right. We love each other and each knows that. El then put my printer in her car and we set off for Asurion ("Ubreakwefix"), dropped off my printer, then went to Chile Basil Thai restaurant for a good Thai dinneer.

Home at 8:00--the middle of the night--and I settled in to play Solitaire on the laptop and watch my hour of T.V. before bed. Slept again--yay!

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I'm not sure whether this or the Instagram above will come out, but I'm trying them:

https://www.jigsawexplorer.com/online-jigsaw-puzzle-player.html?url=aHR0cHM6Ly9waG90b2dyYXBocy52ZW50dXJhbXVzZXVtLm9yZy9maW

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TUESDAY

 Darn, I usually write the bulk of the blog the day and evening before, but it's now after 6:00 pm and I'm just getting to it.  Okay, here's a quick synopsis:

I again had poor sleep, so took an early nap, but went to Bone Builders at 10:15. That lasts an hour and is fairly strenuous at times, but I managed. Lunch after and I sat at our new table with the regulars: Kathie, Paula, LaVerne, Denise, and Pat. I skipped the tacos for a large chicken salad and we had some good conversation.

Went to dime Bingo at 2:00 and won two games. After, I stopped at the desk to see if I could speak privately with director Tiffany. I could and I did, asking her if Provincial Senior Living, the corporation that runs The Orchard, has any affiliation with religion, specifically Christan. She said no, but when I pointed out the number of religion-oriented acitvites they had, she agreed. Of course, I didn't expect her to say she'd cut them--many people do attend them and why shouldn't they?--but maybe a bit less enphasis would be more comfortable with we non-religious. I saw Mary and Barbara after--they feel the same way--and filled them in on what we discussed. 

Ellen called to see if I wanted to go with her today to shop, then to dinner and I do, of course.

Had dinner here with the same regulars mentioned above. It was seafood chowder, which I liked, but didn't thrill anybody else. 

Happy day, I slept the night through and just got up at 7:30!

MONDAY

Determined to finally reform my laziness, I went to Balance Class with Jackie at 10:00 and directly after, did twenty minutes on the staitonary bike. However, aside from opening my box from Amazon, setting up tomorrow's morning coffee, taking trash to the trash place, and a few other minor chores, I didn't do a lot else.

Of our group, only Paula and I went to lunch and Beverly joined us. Later, Kathie called to say she would go down early, in order to secure the larger table. I said I'd join her and we'll see how it works. I did and Kathie, Paula, LaVerne, and I were joined by Pat, a very nice guy. I like the new table and hope we can retain it. 

Vickie, Suzanne, and I had intended to have lunch together today, but unfortuantely, Vickie has developed a respiratory problem. I think her health is precarious, considering her breast cancer treatment. She texted me to let me know and I called Suzanne. We decided we would go another time; I just hope Vickie is well enough to go to Sharon's anniversary party on Friday. 

I had another bad sleep day--or  night--and will probably have to take a nap before lunch. I want to go to Bone Builders class at 10:15, but am not sure if I'll make it. 

SUNDAY

Before lunch, I stripped the bed and washed the sheets, then left them to dry while I showered. At lunch, I was surprised to see LaVerne sitting at "our table" with Kathie, Paula, and Denise. I joiined them and enjoyed the shrimp luncheon.

After lunch, I remade the bed and took an hour's nap. I was surprised that Thea called from the front desk to say Cindy was there and did I want to play Yahtzee? I said no, I was about to get in the shower and I'd see her next week. I checked the schedule and actually, Sunday's said "Card Playing" instead of the usual "Yahtzee with voluteer Cindy," I don't know why the confusion.

I called Kathie to ask about the LaVerne-back-at-our-table thing and K. said she had called L. and they discussed it. We're now planning to move to a larger table and let's hope everybody will be happy there. 

Ellen and Greg came at 4:00 and we spent some time chatting, plus Ellen tried to fix my printer, but it didn't seem to work, so we may have to take it to Asurion. We decided on Lure in town for dinner and after  hour or so, that's where I went. Their seafood is superb; I had lobster ravioli with an IPA and El and Greg had sea bass. That looked delish and I had a bite of Ellen's--I'll order it next time we go.

Home after 7:00, which meant I had to use my opener to get in the building. No prob and I had enjoyed  a pleasant outing,

SATURDAY

 Nothing much going on until lunch. I set up my meds (that's read medical talk!) for the week, morning and night. Bestirred myself long enough to sweep the porch/patio, which had some dead leaves from the magnolia trees outside.

Lunched with Paula and it was beer battered cod--very good. After, I just hung around until 2:00 and time for quarter Bingo. Went to it and won two games. Paula came in to sit with me and watch--she's unable to read much, even alphabet letters. After, I just generally chilled out until dinner...

...which I ate with just Paula alone. Denise is still away and Kathie didn't show. I was surprised when Paula told me that Kathie had sat down with LaVerne at breakfast, but will ask her about that.

Ellen called about 8:00 to see if I wanted to go to dinner tonight with her and Greg. Oh, yes, I'd like nothing better, so we'll go to Stephen's Greek or Lure Fishhouse in town.

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I came across this pictu;re, c. 1939, after my brother, Larry's First Communion. My brother and sister, Jimmy and Gene, are on the left,;Frank, Betty, and me in front of my mother; Larry with my cousin's arm on his shoulder; Jackie Bihlmier with Mrs. Clark's hand on his shoulder; oother adults are relatives and close friends. I don't know who the other boy is or whether my father was there--maybe he took the picture. 

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FRIDAY

Terrible T.O.P.S. report: I was up 2.6, to 144.2 at home and up 2.3 at the other place, to 145.1. I wasn't surprised, considering all, but am pretty discouraged. I napped--which I probably shouldn't do, but I don't listen to myself--before lunch, then sat with Paula, Kathie and Denise not in evidence. I know Denise is away for the weekend. 

At 3:00, I went downstairs for Happy Hour and to see and hear "Panama G.," who sang a lot of Sinatra and others of the era. He was pretty good:                                                 

                                                    

At one point, he actually sat down to sing:

Paula had saved me a seat, but unfortunately, she had to leave early as she had one of her sudden attacks. She had had two strokes several years ago and still suffers some ill effects. 

Paula was okay later, though, and was down for dinner. Kathie came in, too, with complaints about her daughter, which I dislike hearing. However, we got off those subjects and enjoyed a good chicken dinner. 

Aside from all that, ain't nuthi' goin' on down here--except for quarter Bingo at 2:00.

THURSDAY

Spent the morning doing a color wash and clearing up some minor financial matters. Had lunch with Kathie and Paula; Dnise joined us later. Kathie said LaVerne had called to say she would be sitting elsewhere for meals; that was probably a good decision, as I think LaVerne doesn't approve of our relaxed ideas. Lunch had an "it's the Bahammas!" theme and was pretty good. There was also a bar available--I had a cocktail first and was charmed when Mindy pointed out she had added an IPA for me--so thoughtful of her and I enjoyed it with lunch. 

The rest of the day? Nothing much, except a nap and a phone call to Jeanne Painter. I was alarmed to hear she had been bitten by a dog and had to have surgery; she seems to be recovering well, though. She also had some infected teeth and needed treatment for that. Jeanne turned 90 in May, but tells me she takes no medication at all, not even OTC supplements. 

Ellen is still working on my phone, which seems to reject Voice Mail. Called George Wimberg, but again had to leave a message. 

Dinner with Paula and Denise. Kathie had mentioned she would stay home for dinner, as she often does. The three of us had a discusson about religion; Denise subscribes, Paula and I don't and it was good to talk without animosity, just sketching out our ideas. LaVerne, as mentioned, didn't siit with us, but at the next table. Hey, fine by me. 

When I got home, I wrote a card for Do-Lannie and added a bracelet and some cash. I'll give it to here today at lunch or dinner. 

TUESDAY

Continued to deal with financial stuff in the morning and am almost finished. Talked to Ellen and she asked me to call the attorney at 1:30, which I did. 

Had lunch with Kathie, LaVerne, and Paula. Stopped at the office to make sure I didn't have to do anything to have the new higher rent taken from my bank account. I don't and was told it's taken out at 9:00 pm on November 3--that is, last night. Okay, that's good to know.

As requested, I called the attorney, Maria, at 1:30 about the power of attorney/trustee thing. I assured her I was perfectly okay with the change and she'll modify the paperwork. At 2:00, I participated in dime Bingo and won two games. 

I was asked to provide names and phone numbers of those I wanted to come to my ninetieth party in December; will do, but it may be hard to include everybody.  

I received a card from my Japanese grandson about "Bon," which I was told, is a holiday there like Halloween. Hmm...I looked it up and found this:

Obon, or Bon, is a traditional Japanese festival honoring the spirits of ancestors, celebrated with family reunions, grave visits, lanterns, and Bon Odori dances, typically in mid-August.

Had dinner with just Paula and Denise, which was fine by me. Today, I don't have anything going on in the morning, but Ellen will be here at 1:15. She'll look at my laptop (it's very slow) and maybe we'll take it to Asurion before my Radnet appointment at 3:00. 

Had a terrible time sleeping last night and think I'll have to take a nap this morning.

MONDAY

Susan picked me up and off we went to the Stone Fire Grille for the Soaring Spirits bi-monthly lunch. Besides she and I (and Gizmo), Gayle, Renee, Narell, and Glenda came and we had a fine, convivial time. I got the soup and salad (and a hazy IPA, natch) and had enough to take the salad home. Got back after 2:00 and did some wearisome financial stuff. 

Ellen called after having been in touch with the attorney, who wants to talk to me about changes in the power of thing, asking that I call her today at 1:30, which I will. 

Had dinner with Kathie, Paula, and Denise. We were surprised when LaVerne sat at the next table without saying hello. Frankly, we're all pretty okay with her sitting elsewhere. Dinner was BBQ chicken, and tasty, although I ordered only a half portion.

Denise had these wonderful glasses, with a light on them; I tried them on and may order a pair: 

Eyeglass magnifer

Denise holding the several lenses that come with it.

Yours truly sporting the glasses. 

George Wimberg called, but I missed it, as I'm having problems with my phone; I'll call him today. Vickie texted me to say Sharon had invited her to the 55th wedding anniversary party, also. Great, as we'll go together and she'll pick me up.

SUNDAY

 As I usually do on Sunday, I stripped the bed, took bedclothes to the laundry room, and did my domestic duty. The closer laundry room to me was already in use, so I had to go to the one in the other wing. No big deal and I've done that before.

Lunch with Kathie, LaVerne, Paula, and Denise, who asked to borrow one of my canes, as she lost hers; she accompanied me back to my place to get it. We also decided at lunch that we'd stake out another place to sit in the dining room.

Went to Bingo at 2:00, but didn't win any. From there, I went directly to Yahtzee with which, I'm afraid, I'm getting very bored. I just hate to hurt the feelings of the volunteer, Cindy, who runs it. She had gotten into the habit of having dinner here after and I didn't want to hurt her feeling by not sitting with her, so I invited her to sit with my gang. That included Kathie, Paula, and Denise--LaVerne was elsewhere--and it went well.

I got three text invitations yesterday: from Susan, asking if I'd like to go to the Soaring Spirits lunch today; Katherine, asking if I wanted go to the BCNN meeting on Wednesday; and Sharon, who invited me to her anniversary party and wanted to know if Vickie and Suzanne might want to come, too. Maybe, we'll see. I said yes to Susan, no to Katherine, because I have an appointment on Wednesday, and probably to Sharon, whom I'll call today.

Interestingly, I saw that George Wimberg called me yesterday; will call him back.   

SATURDAY

A draggy morning, but I did a color wash, then went down to see the dressed up doggies, many of which are therapy dogs. I'm no dog-lover, but have to admit they were darling: 

Above: Tom and his little nurse dog.

This one looked more like a lion than Leo!

An area resident came with her two.

I loved the little "cook doggy" on the right.

 I had lunch with Kathie, LaVerne, Paula, and Denise. At 2:00, I attended the "Trunk and Treat" event which featured Halloween type goodies and a whipped cream/cheezit game:

Yes, participants were given shower caps, then had whipped cream squiarted on their heads. After that, the other players got ten cheezits to throw at them. The winner was the one who got the most on. Above is Marge and those are the ones I got on. The one who threw at Katherine won, though, and here she is on the left, below:

Katherine and Jean with whipped cream and Cheezits.

Not to be outshone, I asked Batman to take a picture with me. He agreed, but  I think I scared him with my witch'es claws:

Batman--he must be six foot five or six. 

Fooled around on the laptop until dinner, which I ate with Kathie, LaVerne, and Paula. I ran into Denise after--she introduced me to her daughter, whose birthday it was. Yes, she was born on Halloween and I think she should be nicknamed "Boo." 

Son Mike Facetimed me.  He's back in Singapore and we had a long talk, which included the power of attorney topic. 

Finally, I slept well, except for getting up for the usual. No plans for today, aside from Bingo and Yahtzee, which is fine by me. 

FRIDAY

 Well, I fervently hope this laptop is fixed. As scheduled, I was picked up by the Accss Van at 9:40 and got to Asurion shortly thereafter. After explaining the problem to the person, I left it and went to Von's next door. I had planned to pick up a few items, but it occurred to me that, what with the laptop, my purse, umbrella, it would probably be too much to carry. Walked down to CVS to see if I had any meds in, but I didn't, so just waited outside for Vickie and Suzanne to show up.

They did at noon and we went to The Little Lion to lunch. It was great to see them again and we had a good time. Stopped back at Asurion and picked up the laptop, then Vickie drove me home.

I took a 45-minute nap, then went downstairs to enjoy Happy Hour, a Margarita, and the fabulous Tatiana, who did her usual song and dance act for an hour. Here she is as Michael Jackson:

And as a scary skelton:

Earlier, I wore the Samuri mask I bought in Tokyo about 25 years ago:

                                                       

I didn't get a picture of the rest of  my costume, but Mindy did. It was just makeshift, anyway, with a tee-shirt that reads: "When I feet hit the floor each morning, the devil says, 'Oh, crap, she's up already!'"

Had very poor sleep last night and will nap today. Not sure what's going on besides the usual, as my schedule info, for some reason, didn't include Saturday. Will see. 

WEDNESDAY AND THURSDAY

 AAGH! I just can't go over all that happened in the last two days, but will minimize the more important parts:

WEDNESDAY: Ellen picked me up and we went to the attorney's office to start setting up the power of attorney stuff. I was favorably impressed with Maria, the attorney, and will receive things to sign and so on.

THURSDAY: We had the "Halloween parade," which was actually a lot of fun. I didn't expect so many to dress up, but at least twenty did and we all enjoyed it. Denise stopped in after lunch and we had an enjoyable talk. I called the Access Van to take me to Asurion today to get the laptop fixed. Also made a date to meet Vickie and Suznne for lunch after; I had completely forgotten another committment I had made, but will have to cancel that. Had dinner with Kathie and Paula and that wrapped up the day.  

TUESDAY--AND IT'S FIXED!

 I called Elika to ask what she had done to the laptop to have it work again;  luckily, she was working upsairs then and came down. She showed me how she had put the charger upright or what ever, but it's just too much of a bore to elaborate. Anyway, it's fixed, I hope for good--and that naughty girl refused to take any payment for it. 

Did a white wash before lunch; ate that with Denise, LaVerne and Paula. Kathy was staying in, as she had ordered a new lounge chair and it was being delivered.

At 1:00, I attended a talk by the director of the health aides about the recommanded usage of wheel chairs, and various types of walkers. I told her about the kindness of the young women who had come down to get me off the flooor.

Bingo after that, although only five of us were there. It was kind of a bore, although I won two. Upstairs after that to get on this laptop--YAY, YAY, AND YAY!  

Dinner with Kathy and Paula, then I went back to my place to revel in being on-line again. Ellen and I will still stop at Asurion to have them--I hope--remove the McAfee crapola from coming on here. 

Darn, I had trouble sleeping and got up now at 6:15. I'll nap later before we go to the attorney this afternoon. 

Monday

 Changed the bed, as I often do on Sundays, and washed a few tops with the sheets. Re-made, then it was down to lunch with Kathie, LaVerne, and Paula. At 2:00, I went up to my nail appointment with Elika and that sweet girl heard that my laptop was down and offered to come and look at it. She did and she fixed it. She refused to take any cash for it (I always give her a little extra for the manicure) and I'm very grateful to her. 

I more or less played around on the Internet until time for dinner. Ate with Denise, Paula, and LaVerne; Kathie, as she often did, skipped it. I was a bit taken about when Paula suddenly got up and left--I worry about her sometimes, as after her two strokes, she has some problems.

I had written my request for the van to take me to the computer place, Asurion, today, but later changed my mind and struck it out. I would have had to take the laptop and accompanying electronics in my cart and I worry a bit that it might now be too much for  me. Ellen will be here on Wednesday when we go to the attorney and maybe we'll stop at Asurion then.  

SUNDAY

Had lunch with Kathie and Paula and brought the silly little Hallolween items Noreen had given me. Everybody like my skelton hands barettes and the "punching pen." Lunch was meat loaf; I had a half portion and it was very good...and at that point, I lost my laptop operation...

...now, it's 2:52 on Monday and I went up to have Elika do my nails. That darling girl--when I mentioned how I couldn't get on my laptop, she said she'd come to my place and look at it. She did and pushed this ad that and--happy day!--it's working again! 

Unfortunately, I don't even remember what else I did on Sunday, but no matter, I'll just publish this and go on to Monday. 

SATURDAY

A good, active day. I took the 10:45 city bus to midtown, purposely being early for my 12:30 lunch date with Noreen because I wanted to see what the Bargain Box had for Halloween. They had plenty and I bought slacks and shorts with ghostly thems, plus a top, and a few other items. Danny's Deli, where we were meeting is only a half-block away, and I strolled down there in the lovely sunshine. There were two gentleman playing instruments outside and I took a picture: 

Noreen came and we went in to have big Ceasar salads, plus my IPA and her champagne. It's always a pleasure to be with Noreen and that dear girl brought me some Halloween gifts: Ia pen that is also a punching clown (don't ask) and barrettes of skelton hands. I love them and can't wait to show them off.

Got home at 2:00, just in time for quarter Bingo, of which I won two. The dime one followed after and I stayed for another hour; Paula came in just to watch. Later, my old friend, Doris G., from Ewing/Lawrence called and we had a good chat. 

Paula and I were the only one of our crew who showed for dinner and we had some good talk together. I decided against the roast beef salad and got a turkey burger instead. Back upstairs at 6:00 and I settled in for the night.

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More evangelical material displayed in the multi-purpose room: 

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FRIDAY

Weight was down .03 at home to 141.6, with zero change at T.O.P.S. to 142.8. The meeting was a lot like a therapy session, with Lannie elaborating on the emotional aspects of her overeating. Home by 10:00 and I probably should have gone to balance class, but I didn't.

I was surprised when Kathie knocked on my door to give me a picture of Keith and a little cat box. She was on her way to to daughter's to try to help as much as possible with the violent boyfriend. Poor Kathie--no wonder she has a negative outlook on life. 

Lunched with LaVerne and Paula. This time, I finally remembered to ask for a half portion--it was pork and sides and was actually pretty good and enough for me. 

At 3:00, I went downstairs to see Kevin Gilmond, a terrific singer and actor, who did a Halloween show, singing all kinds of funny and witchy songs. He's one of my favorites: 

You can't see them, but he's wearing cat ears and a cat tail.

Sat with Kathie, LaVerne, and Paula for dinner--fish, not bad--and Kathie, finally at long last, displayed a check she had just gotten for $55,000. It seems that her late husband had done all kinds of financial shenanigans and failed to put her name in his will. Anyway, she contested and, with the help of her daughter, finallly won her case.  

Slept well and my BP has been good. I'm looking forward to seeing Noreen for lunch today.

THURSDAY

 Slow-ish day. Aside from a few daily chores, I didn't do much except play around on the laptop. Had lunch with Kathie, LaVerne, and Paula; crab cakes, which were pretty good. 

Futzed around with this and that until 3:00, when I went to down participate in the "olive toss" game. This was an invention of activities director Minday and entailed a number of household objects. It was wacky, but actually kind of fun. Here are Marge and Doug vying for the win:  

The idea is to roll up the T.-paper without having the objects fall.

Shortly after that, dinner was served; Paula, Denise, and I enjoyed it together. As happens often, neither Kathie nor LaVerne came down, which I don't mind occasionally. Actually, I enjoy the other two--who are younger--though not by much--nd don't act as if life is a chore. During and after dinner, we were treated by surprise guests, a male and female singer who were terrific and, among other things, impersonated Lucy and Desi. They're on tour in some show or other and just got in from Chicago.

Just got up at 5:00 and Cheryl will pick me up for T.O.P.S. I'm not optimistic--sigh...

WEDNESDAY--WHEN WATER CAME OUT OF THE SKY!

 Yes, it rained most of the day and what's more, it's supposed to continue today. Nevertheless, I had a cardiologist appointment, so had to go out.

Had lunch with Kathie, LaVerne, Paula, and Denise and skipped the chili in favor of bagels and salmon. I got an extra one to have during my evening T.V. watchng.

Ellen came at 2:00 and off we went to Cabrillo Cardiology. This was just a follow-up visit and happily, all seems okay. My BP is satisfactory and the slight murmer seems not to have progressed, so I don't need to go back until March for an echo-gram and April for follow-up. 

El brought me a number of Halloween items I had stored at her house and I'll use them during our coming Halloween bash. Can't wait to put this on my door: 

BOO!

Denise and LaVerne were elsewhere, so it was just Kathie, Paula, and me for dinner. The spaghetti was rather bland, but edible; however, Kathie complained about it, as she does about virturally everything else in life. I'm getting tired of her negativity. I know she's had some family problems, but to hear her complain so constantly, no matter the topic, gets wearing. At this point, I'm not sure, but I may want to sit elsewhere for a time.

Activities director Mindy invited me to see the trailer for Queen Bees, a five-year-old old movie about people, mostly women, in an independent living retirement community. It's a comedy, natch--nobody takes old women seriously--and I guess I'll attend the showing. 

TUESDAY AND RELIGION

 Slept well again and just did the everyday stuff until lunch. That I ate with Kathie, Paula, and LaVerne and it was good--for Taco Tuesday, it was chicken tacos.

Hung out after until Bingo at 2:00. I won three games, but only five of us were playing, so it was hardly a big payoff. I was surprised that Mary G. stopped me after to talk about something about which she feels strongly; up to a point, so do I. We discussed the religious overlay that's noticible at The Orchard.  Every Sunday, there's a minister who comes to preach and there are frequent Bible study gatherings. Also, a resident who regularly plays hymns on the piano in the multi-purpose room and others can sing along.  The Chosen* series is shone on a regular basis. All these are scheduled and listed on the weekly printoout. Now, I have no issue at all with what people believe and follow. However, I do object to paying to live here and being bombarded with what seems to be heavily evangelical leanings. Also, this is what's on the piano in the multi-purpose room: 

Note the cross.  Mary and I will talk about all this and possibly discuss it with management, but I'm not optimistic about any change. 

Had dinner with Kathie, LaVerne, Paula, and Denise. I didn't care for the entree, so had one of their yummy hot dogs along with sweet potato fries.     

* The Chosen portrays the life and ministry of Jesus in first-century Galilee and Judea through the eyes of those who met him, blending Gospel events with imagined backstories to give depth to the disciples and other figures. Notable for its high production values, diverse cast, and record-breaking crowdfunding, it has been praised for its emotional impact, relatable characters, and authentic setting, though some note its creative liberties. Critics and audiences often regard it as compelling and worth watching, even beyond religious circles.

MONDAY

 Slept well and participated in balance class at 10:00. Our volunteer leader, Jacquie, has invited us over to her area residence for Halloween. It has something to do with a miniature train, but I'm not quite clear on it.

Had lunch with Kathie, Paula, and Denise, after going down the long staircase; the elevator was closed for repairs, but was operational after lunch. It will be again today, but is no problem, as I take my cart, rather than the bulkier walker. I hadn't intended to, but took a nap after lunch, then filled my medication containers. 

Did a half-hour on the stationary bike, then just hung out playing Internet games until dinner. It was a large, well-made salad with strawberry dressing and we all loved it. I talked to Chef Michael after and complimented him. I sat with the regulars, Kathie, Paula, and Denise and we had our usual in-common talk. Unfortunately, Kathie is having some family problems--hope it's resolved soon.

SUNDAY

 I slept well, I'm happy to record, and didn't get up until 6:00. Although I was brought up to believe doing servile on Sunday was a sin, I decided to defy the edict and change my sheets. I dressed in yesterday's clothes to get the wash to the laundry room, then stayed in them to transfer to the dryer and then pick them up and re-make the bed. After that, I jumped into the shower, washed my hair, and was ready for the day.  

Lunched with the regulars: Kathie, LaVerne, and Denise; Paula was out with her daughter. The other person who did, though, was Denise'es husband, Trent. He had lunch with us and is quite a character.  He lives a few hundred miles away up in the mountains and she lives here at The Orchard. They don't plan on divorce, but can't get along living together. Hey, if they're both satisfied with the arrangement, why not?

At 3:00, I went down to see my friend, Suzy, and her band, "Skin to Steel." They were terrific, as ever:

L. to r., front: Eric, Suzy, and Brian

In the back, Steve, who's Suzy's husband

And here's Eric Lewis, my friend, Cheryl's son, doing a solo.

Cheryl and her husband and sister came, too.

I sat with Paula, then Denise came in and sat with us, too. Kathie didn't show at the show, although she said she might be going. I think her negativety would ease if she'd get a little more involved, but hey, that's her choice ot make. 

Anyway, it was great fun and I think everybody enjoyed it. When I got back to my place, I got a call from my brother, Larry, from Florida. He said he's doing okay, although slowing down a bit--he'll be ninety-five on his next birthday.

SATURDAY

 As mentioned, I had slept poorly and got up at 6:00. After a time, I revived and did my little household chores, as well as played games on the laptop; happily, the Internet was back in operation. Spent twenty minutes on the stationary bike, which I want to do every day.

Had lunch with Kathy, Denise, and Paula. At Kathy's instigation, we're sitting at a different table, but LaVerne opted not to join us. When we have five, she thinks it's too crowded--her choice. After that, I went to the little "store" to pick up a few essential. 

At 2:00, I went to quarter Bingo which, after an hour, changes to dime Bingo. I won two and had an enjoyable time, especially with Mindy''s vodka and orange juice cocktail, served with her freshly baked German pancakes. 

Had dinner with the usual crew, the five of us sittin at a larger table. I was so stuffed with the aforementioned I just ordered a fruit plate and took it home to eat later. 

FRIDAY

 Friday was pretty much a disaster for a lot of Ventura. When Cheryl picked me up for T.O.P.S., she said the electricity had been out for her whole section. She and her husband live up in the hills with a great view, but precarious electrity.  The high winds meant Edison had turned off the juice. Luckily, that didn't happen here. What did happen is that the Internet went down later.

First, though, my weight: I was up .02 at home and .01 at T.O.P.S. for respective weights of 141.8 and 142.8; not good, but not too terrible. Sharon was already dressed in one of her many Halloween-y oufits with matching earrings:    

They're hard to see, but are actually little witches with a fringe.

Sharon also brought me some cute little earrings she had made--kitties in pumpkins!

Besides all that, Sharon invited all of us to a fifty-fifth wedding annivesary for her and Lewis. It's on November 14 and yes, I want to go.

Home about 10:00 and I'm not even sure what I did until I went downstairs to partipate in a kind of "throw the cloth bag into the hole" game. We played in two teams and the game will resume today, as it was dinnertime before we finished. I thought I'd be bored, but actually, it was pretty good fun.

What followed dinner, though, wasn't: The Internet went down in the whole building--maybe, for all I know, areas around the campus. I think it may have beern because of the incredibly strong winds, as that caused the electricity outage. Luckily, it was on when I got up just now at 6:00, and I fervently hope it stays.

Had a terribly time sleeping last night and will definately take a nap before lunch. 

THURSDAY

Put in a white wash, then went down to lunch with Paula and Denise; I'm not sure where Kathie and LaVerne were, but we had a good time. After, I finally started separating the mile-high pile of paper I need to file. 

 I forgot to mention that on Wednesday, Mary Hoffman had called me. She said she had run into George Wimberg and he asked that I call him.  I did so yesterday and we said hello, but he was at a function and said he'd call me later.

Virtuous me, I then spent an hour filing the mountain of papers I had accumulated over weeks. Also sent the water bill to Lori, my tenant, as she's the one who pays it. Finally finished, I went to dinner and aside from Denise, the regulars, Kathie, LaVerne, and Paula were there. It was Mediterranean shrimp with sides and was pretty mediocre, I thought, but I ate it anyway. 

Slept well, but again am not  looking forward to T.O.P.S. for obvious reasons. 

WEDNESDAY

 Had lunch with LaVerne, Paula, and Denise--Kathie was out with her daughter. We had cod with a good sauce and asparagus and even better talk. Denise just had to have two teeth pulled and is still recovering, but she was in good form.

After lunch, Ellen called and we discuss the power of attorney thing. She spoke to the attoney who did her friend, Joanne's, mother. Sounds good, as it will include "in trust" stuff and so on. I'm glad she's taking care of this.

Went downstairs to have nurse Jasmyne do my BP. Happily, it was 132 over 81, good for me. I think the increase in medication Natalie made did the trick, as the BP has been good when I take it, too. 

I watered my plants on the porch and cleaned up a bit out there before changing to meet Katherine and Julie when they picked me up at 4:15. We were early at Portolas Restaurant in Oxnard, but that was okay. About fourteen of us met for dinner and had a great time. I had fettuchine Alfrado--yummy--and a good hazy IPA, and enjoyed the talk and laughs all around. Home a little before 7:00 (I'm not often out that late) after a very enjoyable outing. Hmm...much as I like living at The Orchard, it's good to be away from there every once in a while with other friends. 

TUESDAY

Finally, I kept my promise to myself and attended Bone Builders at 10:15. I actually like the balance classs better and I'll be there this morning.

Lunch: Of our group, only Paula, LaVerne, and I were there, which was okay. It was "Taco Tuesday" and the beef taco was good.  After that, I just hung out until dime Bingo at 2:00. That really wasn't that much fun, as Mindy had other obligaitons and had resident Ada call. Ada means well, I guess, but was wasn't much of a caller. However, I won two and replenished my dime trove.

I was pleased to have my friend, Kathryn, text me to ask if I wanted to go to the BCNN dinner group  today. Sure, why not, and she'll pick me up at 4:25. 

Had dinner with Kathie, LaVerne, Paula, and Denise and mistakenly told them I won't be in for lunch today. Should have told them dinner, but no big deal. 

Slept well, I'm happy to say, all the way to 7:00 am. 

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Memories: A co-worker and I at our place of employment, c. 1956; I'm on the right. Yes, I dressed like that every day, including the four- or five-inch heels.

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MONDAY

 Lunch with Kathie, Paula, and LaVerne. The chicken and sides didn't appeal to me, so I ordered a turkey sandwich; ate half,  and took the other half home for my evening snack.

Ellen picked me up at 1:00, leaving off the detergent and lemons I needed, and bringing me two pairs of sneakers. She had bought them on-line and can't wear them; one fit, the other was too big. We then  went to Primary Medical. We consulted with Natalie, the P.A. whom I like a lot and who seems to me as knowledgeable and careful as any doctor. She went over a lot of my medications, eliminated one, and increased the dosage of another. Fine by me. While there, I also got a flu shot. 

On the way home, El broached the subject of medical and legal power of attorney. With my knowledge and approval and that of her brothers, she and her sister will assume those duties. She had gotten the information about an attorney from Betty's daughter, but I want to call a few places first.

Home after 3:00 and I just played solitaire on this laptop until time for dinner. Sat with Kathie, Denise, and Paula; LaVerne sat elsewhere, presumably because she objects to putting five at the table. Okay by me, as we had less in common than the other three.

No plans for today, except for dime Bingo at 2:00.     

SUNDAY

Unfortunately, I again didn't sleep well, so took a short nap. I then stripped the bed, washed, dried, and re-made. Lunched with Kathie, Paula, and Denise; LaVerne didn't show. It was salmon with sides of sweet potatoes and rice, plus special olives from Italy-- very good.

Back at my place, I did some paper/laptop work, then wandered downstairs. I was surprised to see dime Bingo was being played and I immediately sat down to play. I won two before Cindy, the volunteer area residents who conducts Yahtzee, showed up and invited to come upstairs to the card lounge and play. I did, although frankly, I don't even like Yahtzee much. I do, however, like Cindy, so joined her, Beverly, and Reggie to play for an hour.

Dinnertime was shortly thereafter and I enjoyed Paula and Denise--sometimes, it's just as well not to have others at the table. After dinner, Denise and I sat and talked and talked--interesting stuff. Back home, I showered and washed my hair, then settled in for the night. 

SATURDAY

Slept okay, but still, took a short nap before lunch. Had that meal with the usuals, excluding Denise, who sat at the next table. Before LaVerne came, Kathie told us she, LaVerne, said she had felt "smoushed" with five of us at a table for four. Okay, we'll see about putting tables together to sit six. 

I went to the docutmentary on John Lennon at 1:00. I actually got a little bored with it, but stayed until the end, then went to the gathering room to play quarter, then dime Bingo. Won a few and enjoyed it. 

Of our little group, only Paula and I showed up for dinner, which isn't too unusual, as the other three often cook for dinner. As usual, Paula and I had some good conversation.

Mike facetimed me at 8:00 and we had a good Mommy/Boy talk. He'll be going to Japan shortly and, I hope, will see the Tokyo Trio. No plans for today, which is fine by me. 

FRIDAY AND THE HIGH LIFE

Poundage report: Well, I lost, but such miniscule amounts it'll take me a year to get back to my desired weight. I was down .02 at home and .05 at T.O.P.S. for respective weights of 140.8 and 142. 

I sat down to lunch with Kathie, LaVerne, Paula, and Denise. Since I was the fifth one at the table for four, Denise moved over and I moved in. To my, and everyone else's surprise, LaVerne, without a word, got up and moved to the next table. According to Kathie, LaVerne had said five at the table "wasn't proper." I had already had the idea that LaVerne was somewhat judgemental about Kathie and my occasional choice of salty language and maybe, my lack of religious belief. 

At 2:00, I went down to Happy Hour, which featurered one of my favorites, the Dynamic Duo:  

Pam sang many of the old favorites--those by Sinatra, The Platters, Sam Cooke, and others. It was great fun and all enjoyed it.

Paula and I had dinner together just the two of us, as our other regulars stayed in their apartments. I was pleased when she mentioned what I was about to myself: that it was nice occasionally to be able to talk one-on-one. Yes and I like Paula more and more as I get to know her. It's funny that I think of her as much younger than I am--about my daughters' ages, in the sixties--when she's actually over 80. There's something so young about her--and I mean that in a good way.

Slept well and I'm looking forward to a John Lennon bio documentary in the multi-purpose room at 1:00 and quarter Bingo at 2:00--wow, I'm leading the high life!  😜 

THURSDAY AND OKTOBERFEST

 The day was a little draggy at first. I didn't get up until 7:30, then mostly lazed around until lunch. I had that with Kathie, Paula, and LaVerne. After, I ordered from Amazon, low-cal peanut butter, no sugar added candy, and some unmentionables--all right, adult underware, why be subtle?

Went outside to sit in the 85 degree sunshine for a bit. While there, I called Mary Hoffman, with whom I hadn't spoken for months. We graduated from HSHS together in 1954, although she's 13 months older than I am. We had a good chat and will keep in touch.

I went in after that to enjoy the German-themed Oktoberfest, starting at 4:00 pm with cocktails; it was a lot of fun and here's the print-out about it:

Above: The first floor was decorated nicely.

Many of the staff were in Germany-theme attire; here are Director Tiffany and Activities Directory Mindy

Maintenance guy, Joe

Our van driver, Rick

The servers were in German-themed outfits, too. Here's one of my favorites, Anthony; BTW, he wasn't able to serve me my beer--too young.

Anyway, the food was good and entertainment was terrific--German dancers who brought the house down: 

Several residents dressed up, too, and helped with the occasion:

Residents Katherine and Mary as pretend barmaids.

Today T.O.P.S., to which--again--I'm not looking forward. Mary Ann is still overwhemed, but Cheryl will pick me up. BTW, I have no idea while the print has turned blue, but oh, well...