SATURDAY

Before breakfast, I stripped the bed and took the sheets to the laundry room.  Transferred them to the dryer before eating with Keith and Ray, then retreived them and remade the bed; took a short nap. Assembled my medications in preparation for setting them up for the week.

Kathie called to say she was skipping lunch, so I sat with Trudie, Carl, Carol and Stan. Had the turkey burger, as the main dish with beef didn't appeal to me. I heard--once again--the saga of Trudie's and Carol's children. Interestingly, Carol's son married a Japanese woman, with whom had two sons; they lived in Tokyo, where he was an electrical engineer. Unfortunately, he died at forty of cancer.

Set up my medications for the week after lunch, then went down to dime Bingo. I had my usual four cards and won two games. I stayed after to hear Frederick, the pianist, play a variety of stage and movie tunes--very enjoyable until his "tribute to the armed forces," with the traditional war propagandistic songs. I simply sat there silently and didn't react at the end. Of course, the rest of the audience showed their support for killing with enthusiastic applause...okay, lecture over.  Here's Frederick: 

Got an email from Suzy about our upcoming show (June 28), still very much in the planning stages. I hope she calls a meeting soon, so players can nail down the stucture and decide what to include.

Dinner with Kathie and Keith, before which I put in a wash of just regular clothes. Put them in dryer after and got them later. My former neighbor, Lorraine, called and we caught up with each other. She moved to Camarillo about the same time I moved here. 

Mike Face-timed me and we had a good chat. Violet is studying for exams which should lead to her reception of an "International Baccalaureate." This is a a program that King Charles once had something to do with--not sure what.  

I put down the new non-slip shower mat and it works wonderfully. It looks like a large square of steel wool, but is soft and actually feels good. Ellen has been worried about me falling in the shower, but this is a 100 percent improvement. I'm still very careful about holding on and so on, but am so glad I got this.

FRIDAY

Weight: 139.6 at home, so no change; 140.6 at T.O.P.S, so up .05. Not too bad, as I had expected worse. Meeting was rambling, as ever, but okay. Maryann left early, as planned, and Cheryl took me to CVS to pick up my meds. I was annoyed that the Ramipril was sent to the other CVS, but the pharmacist at this one made me up another. Home a little after 10:00 and I decided I'd wait until lunch to eat. 

Did so and sat with Kathie, Keith, and LaVerne. After, there was a "celebrations meeting" where residents suggested new activities and themes. I suggested the servers be introduced by Chef Michael when he gives daily talk at dinner and Mindy liked the idea. We talked about a few other ideas and suggestions and it was a good meeting.

On-line, I ordered from BevMo some of the IPAs I enjoy; incredibly, they were delivered forty-five minutes later. There's a ten dollar fee, plus tip, but considering the hassle it is for me to get there and get the buy home, it's well worth it. 

At 3:00, I went upstairs to the salon to get a manicure. Elika did a great job on my often-breaking nails, plus I have fun talking with her. She had her eleven-year-old son with her and showed me pictures of her two daughters--beautiful girls aged 18 and 15 and we had a long talk about the fun--and frustrations--of child raising. I was tickled when she show me the flyer circulating at The Orchard:

Those are my hands and that's the last manicure Elika gave me! I've greatly enjoyed showing it to my fellow--and sister--residents. 

I didn't see either Kathie or Keith, so had dinner with Barbara, Trudie and Carl, Carol and Stan. As usual, we had some good conversation and laughs. 

I slept well and just got up at 6:30. Stripped the bed and took the sheets to the laundry room where they're now sloshing around. 

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THURSDAY

 Breakfast with Keith and Rambling On Ray sat down with us. After, I took my hour nap, then went down to wait for Rick to drive me to Von's and CVS. He did and I got--almost--everything I needed, including B12, Ny-Quill, cream sherry, and Mother's Day cards for my daughters and DILs. I called to be picked back up at noon, but somehow, the message didn't get through and I had to wait for about a half-hour. That meant I was late for lunch, but no prob, as I had plenty of good leftovers from The Lazy Dog and I ate that in my apartment. I then realized I had forgotten to pick up my meds at CVS--damn! 

Filled out and mailed the cards for my daughter-in-law in Japan and ex-DIL in Singapore. I don't even recall what all I did after that except play Jewel Royale Match. I dd call Maryann to be sure she's pick me up for T.O.PS. this morning--sure, but she has to leave early, so I called Cheryl to ask if she'd take me home and stop on the way to get my meds. Yes, she will, and I'm lucky to have such friends.

Called manicurist Elika and she'll do my manicure at 3:00 today. 

Dinner with Keith, Kathie, and Dyan and we had some interesting talk. Keith, of course, takes piano lessons and Dyan mentioned that Brian Wilson, of Beach Boy fame, had given her his white piano to hold for him--I don't remember the circumstances. She also said her mother had been the pianist at a silent film theatre. I asked when her mother was born and she said 1917. Later, I looked up infor on when the silent movies faded out in favor of talkies: 1930, so her mother would have been 13. Of course, there were still a few playing, I guess, until the last which I read was in 1936, so I suppose it's possible. 

T.O.P.S this morning and I'm not looking forward to getting weighed, but I'll take my medicine.

WEDNESDAY

Breakfast with Keith and Dyan, then Ray joined us. After, I straightened up the apartment a bit, as we had been notified the annual inspection would be conducted that day. I lay down for a nap, but before I fell asleep, my friend, Lora, called from Arizona. We had a good talk and caught up with each other. I hope to see her when she comes here in August.

Vickie picked me up at 10:30 and off we went to Oxnard. We asked the aide to bring Jim and and he did. Jim was washed, clean-shaven, and well dressed, and I was pleased to see a Happy Birthday balloon:                                                    

...plus a birthday cake had been provided: 

Jim had already eaten and I passed on a piece, but Vickie indulged. I gave Jim his present (the book on opera), which he seemed to appreciate:

We stayed until noon, then said goodbye. We assured Jim we'd be back and next time, I'll bring lunch for the three of us.

Vickie and I then went to The Lazy Dog for our lunch, and sat outside. I had a yummy Loco Moco Hawaiian dish, which, coincidently, had been on the menu at The Orchard for lunch. V. dropped me off about 2:30, after a very enjoyable outing.

Went down to the new residentt rceception at 3:00 and "met" LaVerne and Michael, plus ondulged in a strawberry Margarita. Back upstairs at 4:00 and fooled around on the laptop. Dinner with David and Lisa, and just hung out after. Slept fairly well and just got up at 5:30. 

TUESDAY

 I was surprised to see Cheryl sitting with Keith for breakfast, but sat down with them. However, the table was the one that got direct sunlight, which bothered my eyes, so I moved and sat with Trudie and Carl. Carol was also there, back from her trip, and she regaled us with travel notes.

Took my after-breakfast nap, futz around, then had lunch with Kathy, LaVerne, and Dyan. After, six of us boadered The Orchard van went off to Bart's Books in Ojai. We were there for about two hours and--I must be nuts--I bought fifty-two dollars work of books--six of them, ranging from murder to philosophy. For Jim's birthday, which is today, I included for him a book called Opera, The Impossible Art, which I hope he'll like. 

Vickie called to confirm our visit to Jim today; she'll pick me up at 10:30, we'll visit for a bit, then go out to lunch. I'm going to try to make it a fairly short visit. 

Dinner with Kathie and Keith, which was pleasant, as ever. Upstairs, I found a notice at my door that inspection would be conducted today between 10:00 and 4:00; I won't be here during some of that time and that's fine by me. 

Had a difficult time sleeping, so will nap after breakfast and before Vickie picks me up.

MONDAY

Breakfast, as usual, with Keith, then my (now also usual) hour nap. At 10:00, I went down to Balance Exercise with Jackie. Ellen called after and we had a long talk, mostly about her conviction that I should hire an aide to drive me places, be here when I take a shower, and otherwise help out. I said I'd consider it and I will, but I'm not sure how I would utilize the person or, more worrisome, how I'd adjust. I also told her about Ani's complaints about INSS and sent her a copy. El will call them and tell them to disregard my application, which she had submitted. 

Lunch with Kathie and Dyan, plus Ron, whom I hadn't met before. Dyan  is my  next-door neighbor and Ron lives just after her, so we're in a row on the second floor. He seemed okay, although pretty reticent. 

After lunch, I called Community Memorial; I had just gotten a bill for $600, which I had paid several weeks ago on April 16.. The person acknowledged that and said it had been sent on the fifteenth. Well, I got it two days ago, which illustrates the sorry state of our postal system--or lack thereof. Anyway, she said to disregard, which I surely will. Priinted out Ani's lament about INSS and will give it to Kathie today to give her daughter.  

Had dinner with Trudie, Carl, and Barbara. We had a good long discussion about how we met our husbands and significant others, then Trudie mentoned Yasso Greek yogurt popsicles and offered to give me one. I accompanied them to their apartment and received it. Also was treated to an array of Trudie's framed needlepoint on the walls--very attractive.   

Showered and washed my hair before settling down to my hour of T.V.

SUNDAY

After breakfast, I took a nap for about an hour and a half, hoping that won't affect my sleep time at night. Didn't do much after except compluter games, until it was time to go down to lunch. Sat with Kathie, Catherine, and Dyan and enjoyed it. Back upstairs, I sent birthday wishes via Facebook, to Jen, my great-grandsons' mother. 

I then took a big load of wash to the laundry room. Once I put it in the dryer, I went down to join an inpromptu Bingo game. I played my usual four cards and won two games. This wasn't dime Bingo--winners simply got "funny money" to use at the little Saturday store.

Retrieved my wash, dried, folded and put, then assembled my meds for the week and got them in the daily containers. 

Dinner with Kathie, Keith, and Dyan, which was pleasant. Upstairs before 6:00 and I watched the end of Lake Erie Murders, then turn in and slept well. 

SATURDAY

Ray joined Keith and me for breakfast again and we heard the never-ending story of his slojourn in the Mercent Marines--counldn't wait to escape. Just hung out with this and that until lunch, which I had with Kathie and Keith. I showed Activities Director Mindy the pictures I had taken at the India gathering on Thursday and she asked me to text them to her, which I did.

Went to dime Bingo at 2:00 and actually won a game (I made about a buck twenty) and enjoyed it. Stayed for Trivia--which attracted just the other Kathie, Trudie, and me, then Just hung out after until it was time for dinner. I joined Trudie and Carl for that; Trudie does tend to go on and on about her daughters, but I like her and have no problem with it. 

Called Vickie and we decided to go see Jim on Wednesday. First, though, I'll have to call the place where he lives and make sure it's convenient. Both Vickie and I have commitments later that day, so we'll go in the morning and not stay for lunch.

I received another interesting communication from Community Memorial Hospital: They want another six hundred bucks for my stop there in January. Wait a minute, I already paid them, so what gives? I'll call them tomorrow and find out.

FRIDAY

Tiny lossers at home (.04 down to 139.6) and T.O.P.S. (.08 to 130.1), but that's better than up. Meeting was okay and I was home by 10:00. Tried to nap, but got up without doing so.  

Lunch with Kathie and Allan and Beverly sat down with us. Keith came in late, so sat elsewhere. Lunch was good: Baja fish with rice and vegetables. After, I went outside to sit at the clubhouse patio. This is where I used to call Muckie and I had a terrific desire to talk to her. That's no longer possible, I know, and I feel so sad about it. However, I pulled myself together and called Pat Kennedy Hayes and we had a lovely chat. She's doing okay and it helped me so much to hear that.  

Back in my apartment by 3:30 and called Bobbi, to whom I haven't spoken for months. I enjoyed so much talking to her and want to visit next week. Both she and her husband are suffering from cancer and she has lost an enormous amount of weight, so I know she won't be around long and want to visit with her while she still is. Told her I'd call her next week and we'll set a time I can visit.

Went to the Taj Mahal video and Indian happy hour, which was fun. We saw a documentary on India and the Taj Mahal and Mindy's friend, Delsei, who is Indian, was at the gathering. She dressed Mndy in a very attractive sari and Elaine was also dressed in Indian-ish clothing:

Elaine, Mindy, and Delsie

Lisa was there, too, and had had her hands decorated with whatever it is that Indian women wear on their hands:

I was asked if I wanted the same, but opted out. I did, though, get a round decorative symbol on my forehead, which was fun to have: 

Dinner with Kathie, Keith, and Dyan, which was enjoyable. I was glad I hadn't napped because that meant I would probably sleep well at night...and I did. Just got up at 6:15, which is a good time for me.

No plans for today, but I'm going to walk, at least around the complex. Also, we have dime Bingo at 3:00--YAY! 

THURSDAY

 A nothin' much day: Breakfast with Keith and Ray, the talker, joined us. We again heard all about this Mercent Marine days of fifty or so years ago, and blah, blah, blah. I lay down for my morning nap after and, unfortunately, forgot to set the alarm. When I woke up, I was stunned to see it was almost lunch time--I had slept for two hours. 

However, lunch was good. I didn't see Kathie and sat with Trudy, Carl, and Barbara. It was India day and we had chicken wings tantoori for appetizers, butter chicken and Indian sides for the entree, and a dessert made with rice and pistachios for dessert (I didn't indulge). To accompany, wine and beer was served and I had a Blue Moon.

After, I finally settled down to type up the T.O.P.S. roster, which I promised Lennie I'd do two weeks ago. Unfortuately, though she has asked me to make 8 copies, I did only three, as my lousy printer has been giving me problems. The paper jammed and it took me time to fix it; it's also been dimming out some lines, so the hell with it--others can copy if they want to. 

Before dinner, I took a little walk, first outside around the campus. It was beautifully sunny, but a little too cool and breezy for my taste, so I went inside. and walked the circuit of two floors. It probably totalled no more than a half-mile, but I guess that's better than nothing. 

Called Kathie to see if she was coming to dinner, but no, she was exhausted after a day with her daughter, so said she'd come to breakfast. I had forgotten I won't be there, as I have T.O.P.S. Oh, well, presumably, I'll see her at lunch.

Had dinner with Beverlee and Greg, as well as Dottie, whose name, I'm afraid, seems to describe her. She's really a bit goofy, but nice enough. We had some enjoyable conversation, even so. Back in my apartment, I just played my games until T.V. time at 8:00. 

I am not optimistic about my weight loss progress--or lack thereof--but will endure the meeting. And darn, I slept poorly, just as I had feared. Okay, I'll nap after T.O.P.S. and before lunch.

WEDNESDAY

 Breakfast with Keith, after which I took my usual nap until it was time to wait at the entrnce for the arrival of the Access Van. It came about 10:40 to take me to Ellen's in Ojai. We chatted and caught up with each other until time to leave for town. First, we went to the post office to send off my graduation presents for Vivian and Violet, then to the Hip Vegan, where we met Greg for lunch.

I was somewhat surprise to see Ellen and Greg embrace (after he and I hugged), as the romance and engagement ended some time ago. Something tells me a little spark might be happening and I couldn't be more pleased. However, Ellen refused to confirm or deny, but I have my suspicions...

Anyway, I enjoyed lunch with the two of them, after which Greg went to his job at the Rainbow Bridge. El and I went to Rains Department Store and I used the gift card Greg had given me for Christmas to get some little items for possible gifts. We went back to meet Greg at his work and the three of us sat outside during his break to chat. 

After, El and I went thrifting, although there are only two in Ojai. She bought some small items for the new neighbors and I got a skirt and four birds on spikes, which I'll put in the flower pots on my patio. We topped off our shopping with a stop at Von's, where I got lemons, IPA, and TUMS.

We then went back to Ellen's to play gin rummy--she beat me by a wide margin, but only because she  cheats (kidding!).  The Access Van came at 6:15 and off I went home after a very enjoyable day.

TUESDAY

LaVerne joined Keith and me for breakfast. She's new, has been here only three weeks. I'm afraid she tends to be a bit of a bore; lectures and so on, but I guess better than some.

Back at my place, I napped, then Blanca and her cousin, Bianca, knocked on my door, Bianca there to cut my hair. She did, in the next hour, and I like it a lot:  

I don't think you can get the full effect here, but I think it really looks good.

LaVerne joined us for lunch, also; Keith was at his men's club, but Kathie and Dyan made up the quartet. Lunch was very good, ground turkey and veggies in a large taco shell. After, Uber took me to Second Wave Physical Therapy and I had a vigarous and good session.  

Home after 3:00, which meant I missed dime Bingo, darn it, but it'll run again on Thursday. Called Kathie to see if she was coming to dinner, but she wasn't, so I ate with Trudie, Carl, Barbara, as well as Carol and her husband. Looking forward to being with Ellen today. 

MONDAY

 Ray joined Keith and me for breakfast, which meant we had to listen--again!--to his interminable account of his adventures in the Merchant Marines. I had put a white wash in earlier, so--after quickly eating my poached egg--was able to excuse myself to put them in the dryer, Napped after, then retreived them, folded, put away, then played Jewel Match Royale and did a few household chores until lunchtime.

I knew Keith had doctor appointments back to back, so sat with Lisa and David, then Kathie joined us. After, I sat outside at the clubhouse enjoying another pleasant sunny day. Called Mary Hoffman when I got home and we had a good talk. She and her sister still live at Shalom House in Margate, although in separate apartments.

I finished wrapping Vivian's and Violet's secondary graduation gifts and will ask Ellen to take me to the P.O. to send them when I see her tomorrow. 

Susan texted me asking if she could pick me up fof S.S. dinner at the Stone Fire Grille and yes, she can and she did. We left at 5:15 and had a great time. Grendal and Renee joined us and we carried on a fun and funny conversation that included former husbands, sex (but not graphic references), and our teenage peccadillos. Home at 8:30--I'm getting to be a dirty stay-out--bed an hour or so later and I slept well.  

SUNDAY

Early on, I stripped the bed and took the sheets to the laundry to put them in the wash. Before breakfast, I put them in the dryer so they were finished once I came upstairs again, at which point, I remade the bed. 

Dyan joined Keith and me for breakfast, then At 3:went out to walk Della. I went back to my apartment, took a nap, and before I knew it, it was time for lunch. Sat with Keith and Kathie, but skipped the main entree--meat loaf and sides--in favor of a turkey sandwich. It was so big I took half home to eat later.

After, I took my hat, sunglasses, and book, and sat outside for forty-five or so. Came in and assembled my medications, RX and OTC, which takes a fair amount of time. One of these days, I'll count the total, but it's too depressing to think about right now.  

At 3:00, I went down to play Yahzee. Besides Cindy, the volunteer leader, only Beverly and Keith were there. Didn't win, but it was a fun diversion. 

Dinner with Trudie, Carl, Barbara, and Carol, and we had some fun discussions. Carol's from Brooklyn, as is her husband, whose name I can never remember; as a rule, he doesn't join in the conversation.

Went upstairs to my apartment and Ellen called to invite me to come over on Wednesday and we'd go out for lunch, then we'd visit a few shows and she'd make dinner. Great and I'll call the Access Van today.

Mike facetimed me and we discussed the two graduations and other famly info. Watched some T.V. after, then turned in and slept okay. 

SATURDAY

 After breakfast, I took an hour nap, which has gotten to be my usual habit. I then just mostly played my Big Fish game, Jewel Royale Match, which has become an absolute addiction.

Lunch with Kathie and Keith; Dyan, my "next door neighbor" joined us, which was enjoyable. Dime Bingo started at 2:00 and, of course, I went to that--annoyingly, although I had my usual four cards, I didn't win a single game. Keith won three and Dyan won two--they must have eheated!

When I went back upstairs, I found at my door the hot plate I had ordered from Amazon. I'd be willing to bet management would have a problem with it, but I'm not going to tell them.

Hung out until quarter of six, when I went down to meet Susan at the entrance. She had some problem finding it, but did and off we went to dinner. We went to Water's Edge down at the harbor, a place I haven't frequented, but was there two or three times. I like it a lot--panaramic views of the harbor, with luxury yachts lined up and the sunset illuminating them. 

We had good, good talk, reacquainting ourselves with each other, and a leisurely meal. Didn't get home until the ungodly hour of nine o'clock and just got up at 6:30. I greatly enjoyed myself, but now, as ever, I'm relieved to realize I have no plans until tomorrow when I go to dinner with Soaring Spirits friends. 

FRIDAY

Another discouraging weight report: up 1.4 at home to 130, up 1.1 at T.O.P.S. to 140.9. Okay, now I've  got to get serious. No more fooling around and I'm going to plan a strategy.

Home at 10:15 and I put in a large load of wash. The machines were in use at my closest laundry room, so I went down the hall and around the corner to the other one.  Lunched with Kathie and Keith and it was "Marry Me Chicken," which they've served before and I like it. After, I retreived my clothes, folded them and put away, then went downstairs where a "jewelry boutique" was taking place. I could hardly believe how inexpensive each piece was and I proceeded to buy a ring for Vivian, bracelets for my daughters, and a necklace/earrings set for myself, all for thirty-two bucks. In the rotunda (it's in the round so that's what I call it), residents Lisa and Helen were selling crocheted items and hand-made greeting cards. I passed on the crocheting, but bought four lovely cards for five dollars each. 

Kathie called to say she wasn't going to the dining room for dinner, as she had cooked up some pork chops. I went downstairs, but Keith wasn't there yet, so I sat with Trudie, her husband, Carl, and Barbara. Actually, it was nice to converse with other residents; I saw Keith later, who was eating alone, and said hello; I'll probably sit with him today for breakfast.

Susan texted back suggesting we get together today at 6:00 pm and go to dinner. She'll pick me up, which is fine by me and I'll text her directions. 

I had popcorn last night, but at least walked (around the building) several times, so got some exercise in. Slept well--until 5:30--and that's encouraging, too.

THURSDAY

 AAGH! I usually write up my blog entries the evening before, then just top them off in the morning, and confirm. Now it's 8:00 pm on Thursday and I'm just getting started, so this will be a quickie.

Breakfast with Keith, took a nap, then got out to the Access Van about 11:45 and was taken to Ellen's on Ojai. From there, we had an interesting day in Santa Barbara. Got there about 1:00 and went To Harry's for lunch. I had a yummy non-spicy chili with Caesar salad. The chili was served in a bread bowl and was so large I took half of it home.

From lunch, we went to the Apple store to look at watches. We saw and tried on a number of them, but the more I did, the more I wondered if I really want one. Ellen felt the same way, so we're both probably going to defer a decision. 

From there, we went to Wal-Mart for some necessary items, such as T. paper, then home. El came in to inspect my medicaiton setups--I did them okay--and fill out some paperwork. By the time we said goodbye, it was 6:30. As I had intended, I missed dinner, which was fine by me as I was still full from lunch. I ate the rest of that while watching T.V. Slept well.

I'm not looking forward to T.O.P.S. this morning, as I know that--once again, dammit--I've gainined. 

WEDNESDAY

Noreen picked me up at 11:30 and we went off to Two Trees for lunch. After, we stopped at the Dollar Tree next door so I could get wrapping paper. Got home just in time to play Dime Bingo and--yay!--I won one with a payoff of a dollar eighty! I stayed to play Jeporady, then Trivia,  and that was enough of the game world for me. 

Dinner with Kathie, Keith, and Beverlee (yes, that's how her parents spelled it), which was enjoyable. Beverlee has a masters from Columbia, as one of my sons does, is from upstate New York, and had been a physcologist for teenaged patients. She lives with Greg and an odder couple I've rarely encountered. 

Later, I went up to wrap some graduation presents and otherwise prepare for going to Ellen's today. We plan on going to Santa Barbara, where I'll look at Apple watches, and then have lunch at Harry's Restaurant, where I have a gift certificate. I also want to stop at Raine's Department strore, as I also have a gift card from there. 

TUESDAY

When I went down to breakfast--with Keith, of course--I saw Rick, the van driver, and told him I had changed my mind about going to Bocelli's in Ojai for lunch. I just felt draggy, so instead, took an hour nap. 

Lunch with Keith, Kathie, and for a change, Elaine. She's been here more than a year and, interestingly, used to live in Jersey. She also owned, with a partner, a weight-loss business in Northfield. Elaine is an "ambassador"--i.e. an unpaid worker--which most facilities like The Orchard, seem to have. Anyway, it was fun talking to her.

Went outside after and called Jeanne Painter. she's going to turn the big nine-o in a few weeks and her family will be having a party in Jersey.  

Dime Bingo at 2:00 and I had four cards, but didn't win any games. Back at my place, I did this and that, then went down at 4:00 for Trivia. That was fun and once it was over, it was time to go to the dining room for dinner. Kathie called to say she was beat, so would eat in her own place, so I sat with Keith. Put my IPA in the fridge with a note saying whoever took it would be proscecuted--ha! Dinner was actually pretty good, beef and spinach ravioli, and Keith and I had some good talk about our respective backgrounds.

Back at my place at 6:15 and I tried to text Noreen, then realized she doesn't use the Internet. She's to  pick me up today at 12:30 to go to lunch and I had suggested Cafe 126 near here, but will see if she'll go to Two Trees, instead.    

MONDAY

Breakfast with Keith, then a nap. Called Second Wave Physical Therapy to cancel today's scheduled visit, as I'm going on the Orchard excursion to Bocelli's Restaurant in Ojai. Also rescheduled the April 28th session, as I'm going to Bart's Books then.

Lunch with Kathie, as Keith sat elsewhere. She--Kathie--had an appointment with her attorney at 4:00, so I made plans with Allan and Beverly for dinner.  

After lunch, I sat outside for a bit--it was sunny, but a little cool. Called my old friend, Nancy, who lives near Ojai in Oakview and we had a good talk. I then took a walk down Wells Avenue. This is a nice residential area and across the street is a lovely view: 

I probably walked no more than a half mile in all, small potatoes in my old days of three miles there and back to Wal-Mart, but it was better than nothing.  I sent away for a list of things to eat, limit, and avoid to lower blood pressure. After that, I futzed around with this and that until dinner time. 

Ate with Beverly and Allan, plus a new resident, Frances. Incrediby, once again, my IPA was missing when I went to retreive it. Tia got me a Harp (Irish beer) from the all-purpose room, but this is getting very annoying. 

SUNDAY

 La-de-dah. After breakfast with Keith, I took a nap. I've been feeling tired lately, for some reason, maybe boredom. The weather's sunny, but a little too cool for my taste.

I did indeed go downstairs and wait at the entrance, in case what I wrote on my calendar ("be outside 11:25") was legit. I waited for twenty minutes, but nobody showed, so clearly, it was in error. I'm going to assume the same for the "lunch 11:30" note I wrote for today. Lunched with Lisa and David, as I didn't see Keith until later. 

Every once in a while, I order from Amazon, but for the first time yesterday, I ordered alcohol. Some states don't allow that, but--wouldn't you know?--California does. It comes though various sources, supermarkets and so on, and I got it from BevMo. I ordered a 12-pack of IPA and they delivered it within an hour--great. Taylor was nice enough to take it to my apartment, too. 

I had gone downstairs to tell Tia on the desk it was coming, then wandered into the multi-purpose room. Beverly and another woman were there, about to start a game of Yahtzee and I decided to join them. I did and found it a lot of fun--I even rolled a Yatzee the first time I rolled.

Dinner with Kathie and Keith--enjoyable. I was back upstairs by 6:15 and whatever I did until my daily hour of T.V., I don't even remember. 

SATURDAY

 Before breakfast--with Keith, of course--I stripped the bed and put the sheets in the wash. After, I switched them to the dryer, then put in a load of whites.  I then tried to get back into my Jewel Match Royale game with no luck. 

Lunch with Kathie--Keith was at the gym--after which I went outside and took a short walk. It was sunny, but a little cool, so I just stayed for a short time. At 2:00, I went to dime Bingo, "bought" four cards and won one game. Trivia was directly after, so I stayed for that. By the time that was over, it was dinnertime and I sat with Keith and Kathie, as usual. Martha ("Marty") joined us and, as ever, talked intermidately about her two children and how brilliant, successful, and every damn else thing they are--AAGH!

Ellen called when we were almost finished dinner, so I called her back when I got up to my place. She asked me to call the Access Van on Wednesday to get to her house on Thursday and we'll go from there to Santa Barbara so I can look at some Apple watches. We'll then go to Harry's Restaurant, as I have a gift certificate from there. 

After dinner, I showered and washed my hair, then relaxed with my hour or so of television and popcorn. Noreen called and we made a lunch date for Wednesday; she'll pick me up here and we'll go to the 126 restaurant nearby. I'm happily looking forward to that. Unfortunately, I still don't know what "be outside 11:25" on my calendar means. Guess I'll just have to be outside to find out.

FRIDAY

Good news on the weight front: 138.6 at home and 139.8 at T.O.P.S., for losses of 1.2 at both. In fact, I was the biggest loser, so got the jackpot of five bucks. Mary Ann had printed out copies of the minutes when Dr. Wally spoke a few weeks ago; I'm not interested. but took a copy to give Kathie.

Home at 10:00, after which I tried to get back on my Big Fish game--Royale Match--but didn't succeed. I called Kathie to see if she was coming to lunch, but she wasn't--her daughter was there and they were still working on the IRS crapola. Since I wasn't sure Keith was coming, either, I sat down with David and Lisa. Keith did come, though, and the four of us had good conversation.

Brother Larry called. I told him about Muckie and he'll call Carolyn. Larry's daughter, Karen, will be moving in with him shortly, so that will be good. He's now 94 and although in reasonably good shape, he does have some "issues," as the saying goes. He just had yet another great-grandchild, a little girl named Jane, courtesy of his grandson, Jimmy.

Went to Happy Hour at 2:00 and enjoyed the Dynamic Duo, whom I've seen several times before: 

One of our exhibitionist residents, Leslie, got up and danced (she always does) and this itme, the weird  Egyptian (too long and involved to explain) joineed her:

Anyway, it was a lot of fun. 

Mike texted to see if I was available for a Facetime chat after dinner and yes, indeed. He and his lady friend were about to take a walk and he leaves for Vietnam tomorrow. He called at 6:30 and we had a good talk. 

Dinner with Keith and we also had some interesting conversation which included talking over our scarlet youth and how we indulged in marijuana (Keith), nicotine (both of us), and alcohol (ditto). 

As I do morning and night, I just took my blood pressure. I'm puzzled and annoyed that it read 140/90, which I was told was my "goal," yet the machine pronounced it high, so what gives?  

THURSDAY

Yay, yay, yay, and happy day! My income tax is signed, sealed, and delivered! After breakfast with Keith, I tried to take an hour's nap, but the phone kept ringing with this and that, so I didn't sleep. Got the Orchard van at 10:00, as requested, and Rick took me to Michelle's place. 

Michelle has done my taxes every year in the ten I've lived in California and I trust her implicitly. I also like her a lot. She's over sixty, was born and brought up in Hawaii, divorced years ago, has a grown daughter, and is a dedicated skier. She has skied in about all the states that have mountains, plus in Switzerland, Greece, and other parts of Europe. In addition, she's a good person whom I like a lot. 

Ran into Kathie before lunch, but she wasn't eating here; said her daughter was coming with lunch. She saw her new little great-grandson and of course, raved over him. I decided not to eat with Keith, as I want to get a little variety, so I sat with Trudie, Carl, Carol, and Barbara, and enjoyed it.    

After lunch, I put in a load of wash, then paid some bills. Decided to go down to Trivia before dinner; did so, and stowed my IPA and glass in the fridge, as ever.  As I was puzzling with others over Trivia, Ellen called to say she was at the harbor and wanted to come look at my printer. She did and while she was working on it, I went down to dinner.

Ate dinmer with Keith and Kathie and El came down to tell me she had fixed my printer--another yay! After dinner, I got my clothes out of the dryer and put them away. 

It's now 6:11 am and Sharon just called to tell me she's not going to T.O.P.S., as she had a bad night with leg cramps. Did she wake me up? Nope, I wasn't out of bed, but already awake. 

WEDNESDAY

Breakfast with Keith, then I took a short nap. Suzanne texted to say she was coming to see Katherine's apartment (they had known each other before and Katherine had lived at So-Fi) and would like to stop in. She did, bringing pictures of her niece's wedding in San Diago--quite a lavish and beautiful affair. 

Lunch with Keith, but not Kathie, for a wonderful reason: Her granddaughter, who had had a number of miscarragies, was delivered of a health baby boy and Kathie was going to Lompoc to see the happy family.

 At 1:00, I boarded the Orchard bus and went to CVS, then to Von's. Got graduation cards and a new baby card for Kathie's great-grandson, plus white zinfandel and a few other goodies. I got in just in time for two games of dime Bingo and darned if I didn't win one. I stayed for the social hour; Carol played the piano and we sang along while enjoying Margaritas. I didn't stay for trivia after. 

Had dinner with Ray and Doris, as I saw that Keith was sitting with Cheryl and Mary. Hey, it was actually pretty refreshing; Ray is a big talker who worked on submarines for years and Doris is the one who was brought up in an orphanage, so both are pretty interesting.  

I signed up to have the Orchard bus take me to Michelle's place at 10:00 today--I hope I have all the material and info I need. Took the elevator to the third floor and left the congratulatory card at Kathie's door. Still not sleeping well and may take a nap after breakfast.  

TUESDAY AND SAD NEWS

Well, I'm finally free from the heart monitor; Ellen picked it up and took it back to Cabrillo Cartiology. I was so worried they might have wanted me to continue it, but they didn't. It was very unconventient to wear and care for, and I'm glad it's gone.

Breakfast with Keith, lunch with Kathie. After, I asked Executive Dirctor Tiffany to have my Vanguard tax statement printed, as my printer is still did. Assistant Tia did it and I was very grateful. I must call The Geek Squad or some other outfit to come fix the damn printer.

Uber picked me up at 1:45 to take me to my 2:30 appointment at Second Wave Physical Therapy and it's only fifteen minutes away, so I was very early. However, it was a good session and P.T. Laura praised my hip flexability. Home before 4:00 and I just hung out until dinnertime. 

Kathie knocked on my door to tell me she wouldn't be down for dinner, as her daughter had brought her a lot of good food and she'd have it at home. Ate with Keith; left a little early to be ready for the Zoom call at 6:00. This came about and we "Second Act Players"--six or seven of us--planned out the project for an hour and a half. I won't elaborate on it now, but it's to take place at the Veritas Theatre in June.

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Just before the ZOOM call, at about quarter of six, I received a text from Matt Datesman, Muckie's son, saying he'd like to call me.  I immediately knew--yes, Muckie died yesterday. I called Carolyn to give her the sad news that her "Aunt Muckie" was gone and we cried together. I called Muckie last week and, as ever, we had an enjoyable talk session. We never glossed over or ignored the subject of her cancer--or her diagnoses--and also discussed the possibility--or not--of an afterlife and so on. We were both comfortable with simply recognizing that we didn't know. I do know I will miss talking to her terribly and will feel a void in my life. Rest in peace, Muckie, and hey, maybe I'll see you later--or not.

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MONDAY

Breakfast with Keith and after, I finally, at long last, started listing the income tax stuff. I got some done before I was picked up by Susan for lunch. We went to the Stone Fire Grille and were joined by Renee, Glenda, -----------, and a newcomer named Pat. We had our usual congenial chatfest and I was able to show the pickleball players, Renee and Glenda, the video of my grandson showing pickleball moves.

Got home about 2:30 and continueed my IRS chores. Called accountant Michelle to say I'll try to get her the info this week. Soon, it was 4:45 and time to go down to dinner. Ate with Kathie and Keith and as usual, we had some good conversation. 

Darn, I again had a difficult time sleeping. As usual, I fell asleep immediately, but awoke at midnight, then at 3:00; it's now not quite 5:00. Ellen's coming at 9:00 to pick up the godawful heart monitor and I leave for the P.T. session at 1:50--I'll try to nap before that.

I have the Zoom meeting for the play group at 6:00 pm--hope I can get into it okay.  

SUNDAY

Breakfast with Keith and this time, Kathie got up early enough to join us. I was picked up by the Uber driver at 10:15 and we went off to Ojai. Greg was already there and we sat and talked for a bit, then went to the Meadow Preserve for a walk. It was a lovely day--very warm at 82, but not humid--and we enjoyed it immensely:

Back at El's, I took a nap while he and Ellen prepared dinner. Greg made a marvelous entree--a fresh, ocean-caught (he won't buy farm raised) salmon poached in a wonderful, herb-infused liquid; Ellen added roasted root vegetables, also very good. We ate about 4:00, then played--what else?--gin rummy. The Access Van was late, and I didn't get home until after 7:00, but that was okay.  

Got an invitation from Susan to go to Soaring Spririts lunch today, which I was pleased to accept and she'll pick me up at 11:10. Happily, I slept well--just got up at 6:15, late for  me.

SATURDAY

Breakfast with Keith, but before that, I found two eggs in the multi-purpose room. They were plastic, of course, and inside were wrapped chocolate candies. I laughed when Keith showed me he had also found two, these in the library. 

I just had prunes and raisin bran, then went upstairs and took a twenty-minute nap. I then made my way up to the third and top floor, where the salon is located. I always enjoy talking to Elika and she's an artiste when it comes to nails. She mentioned that she "serviced" men, too, and seemed genuinely surprised when I told her that term was originally used by ladies of the night to refer to...well, you know. We both laughed about that. Elika did a great job on my nails and she recommended a supplement called Biotin to strength them; I'm going to look into it. 

Lunch with Keith and Kathie and, again, it was really good--angel hair pasta and vegetables, along with a  chicken thigh.  After, I set up my medications and supplements for the week, then went to Dime Bingo (I'm obsessed!). I won the first game, but no others. 

Got a nice postcard from Ellen which she had mailed on February 25 from her cruise. It's a picture of the original Panama Canal; she wrote that her ship went through a newer, expanded set of locks. 

As for going to Ellen's for Easter, I called the Access Van and found there were no more vans available to get there, but I was able to book one to go home. Texted El and she got an Uber to pick me up--of course, that's about ten times as much money and I don't even like Ubers as much, but oh, well. 

Dinner with Keith--Kathie didn't show. We had some good talk, though, about our childhoods, later experiences, and so on. It was nice to know Keith has been to Singapore where Mike lives, as well as Japan where I have family, too. 

Took a shower, watched my daily ninety minutes of television, then turned in. Disappointingly, I didn't sleep well; woke up at midnight and had a problem getting back. Now it's not quite 5:00 and I've already washed and brushed. Okay, I'm not getting picked up until 11:30, so I'll nap after breakfast.

FRIDAY

Disaster at the scales: At home, I was up 1.8 and at T.O.P.S. up 1.1 for (sob!) weights of 140.2 and 141, respectively. Both are, of course, 'way over my desired range of 125 to 130. Okay, now I'm bound and determined to get back on the straight and narrow and LOSE NEXT TIME!!

Home at 10:00 and I immediately put a load of wash in the cart, took it to the laundry room, and set it to wash. I then ate the other half of the avocado Kathie had given me--so yum. Went down to lunch and ate with Kathie and Keith. We asked Keith why he sat with C. and M. yesterday and he said he just liked to move around a bit. I can understand that, so I deleted my comment on him on Thursday's entry. He's really a good guy and not either arrogant or nutty as some of the other guys seem to be.

Ellen came at 1:00 and shortly after, we spoke to Natalie, the P.A. at Primary Medical, going over my meds and supplements and so on. I had overlooked the turmeric I'm supposed to be takin and will add that. Also, Natalie asked if I thought the Zoloft was helping, but I told her no, so I was told to take two.  However, when Ellen checked my nighttime meds container, she saw I hadn't put a Zoloff in for Friday or Saturday, so had I been taking them or not? We decided I'd continue with one tonight and tomorrow and see if they have any effect. If not, I'll increase them then.

El also brought me the groceries I had requested, then worked on my mouse, which had died, and other problems on this laptop. I had changed the battery in the mouse, but she thought they were too old when bought (there was no expiration date), so we went to Circle K and bought new. I put them in when I got home and happy day, the mouse is now working fine. I was also invited for Easter lunch at Villa Ellen and that will be fun. 

Son Mike Facetimed me and we had a good chat. Got an Easter card from him (electronic) and a U.S. Mail card from Ellen. I sent to grandchildren electronic cards.  

Manicurist Elika called me back and I'll get these damn nails done upstairs at the salon at 10:00 today. 

Dinner with Kathie and Keith. Because Kathie's daughter, Stacy, does for her so much as Ellen does for me, I told Kathie about the IHSS (In Home Support Services). She was very pleased and she'll tell Stacy. 

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My grandson, Joel Phillips

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THURSDAY

Breakfast with Keith and a newcomer sat down with us. Her name is Laverne and she had moved in only last Friday. Nice person and with an interesting background. Not sure how old she is, but certainly  over 80, if not my age. 

Went to Bone Builders at 10:30, then lunch after with Kathie and Keith. Kathie gave me a copy of the following which her daughter had sent her--I think it's hysterical and so totally true:

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If in a toxic relationship, remember this:

A man was running down a mountain to escape a fire and he came upon a snake. The snake tried to keep up with him, but couldn't.  He begged the man to pick him up and carry him down to avoid the inevitable. The man, afraid of being bitten, refused, but after much pleading, he relented, picked up the snake, and continued down. When they got to the bottom, the man let the snake go—and was immediately bitten! The man was shocked and said, “I carried you as you asked and made sure you made it down safely and you still bit me?”

The snake replied, “YEAH, I'M A SNAKE!”

Moral of the story: Once matured, people don't change in any significant way. 

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Dinner with Kathie. We were both surprised to see Keith was sitting with Cheryl and Mary. What's up with that? I won't be here for breakfast--going to T.O.P.S--anyway, and we'll see what happens at lunch.

Back in my apartment at 6:30 and started looking over my Dionne Quintuplet material. I'm thinking about reviving my presentation on them--we'll see if I can adequately pull things together. s rug down a mountain to escape a fire and he came upon a snake. The snake tried to keep up with him, but couldn't.

WEDNESDAY

Katherine picked me up at 9:00 and we went to the BCNN meeting. The program was by a Marine biologist who elaborated on the sea creatures that inhabit the Channel Islands water off the coast. She showed whales, porpoises, dolphins, and so on, and how they lived and what they did and I know it was supposed to be fascinating, but frankly, it bored the hell out of  me:

There were sign-up sheets on the tables for the potluck lunch in September and I listed something easy to do that I can just make up. I couldn't resist circling the typo: 

Got back to The Orchard at 11:45, changed into my new tee-shirt, and  went down to the dining room.  I didn't see either Keith or Kathie, so sat with Trish, Ralph, and Jerry. The latter two are grumpy old men, but Trish and I had a good conversation. When I left, I saw Keith had obviously come in late and was sitting with Cheryl and Mary. Hmm...I should have just sat at our regular place. 

At 3:00, I went to the multi-purpose room and saw another fabulous one-woman show by Tatjana: 

Resident Leslie managed to get in on the dancing, too.

Dinner with Kathie and Keith, during which Kathie told us some interesting facts about her childhood: Her mother, a native of Denmark, had taken her back there when she was ten and they subsequently toured Europe, actually staying in campgrounds for ten months. I told her she should record her memories of this for her descendants.

The avocado Kathie had given me was finally ripe, and I cut into it, sprinkled it with fresh lemon, and ate some of it as I watched my hour of T.V. last night, which was superb--the avocado, that is. The show was pretty good, too, a series about historical mysteries. They covered the D.B. Cooper thing the other day and last night, the Titanic.  

I called Elika, the manicurist, but haven't heard back from her. I was hoping she could do me today; if not, I may try the other one, Cecilia.  

TUESDAY--ANOTHER BUSY ONE

 After breakfast (with Keith, of course), I prepared for my cardiology visit. Ellen  came at 9:15, bearing a pretty lily plant for me as an Easter gift. She first looked at my misbehaving printer, then we left. Got to Oxnard in twenty or so and went to the second  floor to ask whether the heart monitor was working correctly.  It was examined and were told it was, so I'm relieved about that. 

After, we went to the first floor for the echogram. We didn't have to wait long and after I took off what needed to be taken off, I lay down and had my ticker tickled or whatever they do. It was a little disconcerting to see my heart on the television-like screen, but it wasn't uncomfortable. That over, we left.

Back at my place, it was almost time for lunch. Ellen decided not eat with us and I went down while she continued working on the printer. However, she couldn't get it to work, so I'll call somebody to come in. Ate with Kathie and Keith. El came down to say goodbye; she'll be back (or I'll go there) on Friday, as we have a tele-appointment with Primary Medical.

I got this Easter card from Tokyo and I suspect Mr. K., my darling grandson, made it--it's not quite as polished as the kind his artist mother makes, but I still love it: 

Went downstairs for the mail at 3:00 and discovered that a Bingo game was about to start. Crazy me, I like to play this, so I got four cards, sat down, and proceeded to win five different games. The prize for each win is a funny money bill, which can be used in the "store" they have every two weeks. This is just a broom closet in which items from the dollar stores are kept; you can use your funny money to buy things like hangers, snacks, napkins and so on. 

Suzy texted me asking if she and Bob could come at 5:30 instead of 6:00 for our play-planning meeting. Sure, and I met them at the entrance. Later, Carlita and Nelson came and Suzy got Sheila and Steve on ZOOM. The six of us discussed, planned, and elaborated on our ideas about shows with senior performers. The first one will dedicated to Suzy's dear friend, Carol G., who died recently; she had been very active in the Santa Paula theatre.  We'll be meeting again to flesh out more information.

When I got home, I found at my door the container I had bought to dinner, which contained the meal I had missed. I thought Kathie had left it there, but when I called to thank her, she said Keith had--I'll thank him when I see him at breakfast this morning. 

BCNN meeting this morning--Katherine (not the same as Kathie) is picking me up at 9:00. Then on Friday, I'll first go to T.O.P.S., then over at Ellen's for the ZOOM meeting with Primary Medical. Hey, I'm looking forward to an off day tomorrow!

MONDAY

 Stripped the bed and put the sheets in the washer before breakfast. Ate that with Keith, during which we had a good literary discussion. He goes more for novels, I for non-fiction, but we sometimes cross over and had several books in common. After, I put the sheets in the dryer and took a short nap while they did their thing. Got up and remade the bed, then went down to attend Balance Class with Jackie.

Lunch with Keith and Kathie--chicken, which wasn't bad--then I sat at the clubhouse to read my book. I didn't get much read before another resident, Doris, came out and we talked. Doris was born the same year my late husband was, 1931, which makes her 95. At length, she told me all about her background: antecedents from Austria, an unmarried mother, brought up in an orphanage in Wisconsin, then lived on a "foster farm," was married, had four sons, and so on and on. I told her she should get her grandchildren to FaceTime or record her telling about her background. Leslie then joined us and we chatted for a bit before it got a little too breezy and we went in.

It occurred to me I should charge my heart monitor, so I followed directions and hooked it up. The directions said it would take about 90 minutes and that it would flash a steady green when it was charged. Then, I was to press the red button and feel a buzz. When it flashed a steady green, I changed the adhesive discs and put it back on my chest. However, when I pressed the red button, I felt no buzz, though I had when it was charged before. Called Cabrillo Cardiology, but had to leave a message for Dr. Wang's assistant and haven't heard back from her yet.  

Ate with Keith--Kathie decided to have soup in her apartment--and as ever, we had interesting conversation. I chatted with Beverly, Allan, and a few others before we all broke up to go back to our own domiciles. 

Took a shower and washed my hair, in preparation for my echogram today. 

SUNDAY

 Breakfast with Keith; he said he didn't see me yesterday at dinner, so sat with Cheryl and Mary. After, I sat outside in the sunshine and called Muckie. We had a good chat; she's still in rehab, but unfortunately, said she'll soon be in Hospice, which she'll enter when she's at home. It's good that we're able to openly talk about her condition, but damn, I hate to know it won't be long before I can no longer call her.

On a happier note, Ellen is back from her cruise and as I write this at 1:09 pm on Sunday, I'm thrilled to know I'll see her in twenty minutes or so. She'll pick me up, take me to Ventura Harbor, we'll walk there, then meet Greg for dinner at Lure. 

Lunch with Keith and Kathie, then yes, indeed, Ellen picked me up at 1:30 and off we went. First, though, she gave me a T-shirt from Aruba. Coincidentally, we're having T-shirt day on Wednesday, so I'll wear it then. 

What a good time we had! We walked along the harbor promenade, at least two miles all told. We took a few pictures on the way, but I'll post them once Ellen sends me hers. We stopped at the Channel Islands museum and I got a cap for the little (big) guy in Tokyo, who just graduated from the equivalent of eighth grade. Below are the cap, the T-shirt Ellen gave me, and the T-shirt day flyer:

After our waterfront stroll, we met Greg at Lure for dinner and had a great time. After a leisurely meal, we said goodbye to him and went back to my place, after stopping at Von's for me to stock up on a few things. It had been a fine day and I hope I never forget how lucky I am. 

SATURDAY AND A BUSY DAY

Mary Ann picked me up at 9:15 and off we went to the NO KINGS rally at the county offices. There were thousands of people gathered, all protesting Trump and his murderous policies. Here's just a small sampling of some of the protesters:

Above: One of my favorites.

Above: Just read it in reverse and you get the picture.

Above: Mary Ann's husband, Frank, a committed Catholic, pacifist, and former seminarian. 

Anyway, it was an invigorating time and excellent turnout. We left a little before noon, so I was in time for lunch; ate with Kathy and Keith. Unfortunately, one of our older residents, Rose, had fallen and when I got to the dining room, was being aided. The fire company personnel came soon after and took her away on a stretcher.

After lunch, I played a rollicking game of dime Bingo; I won one, but darn, somebody else did, too, and we had to split the $3.60 winnings, but at least, I got a generous $1.80--ha! After that, I stayed for Trivia, which Keith conducted, and then it was time for dinner. Kathy didn't show and I didn't see Keith later, either, so I sat at a table by myself, but was soon joined by Martha or "Marty." This women is an absolute champion talker who never shut up about her extremely successful children, her sterling background, and the wealth with which she's been surrounded all her life. How true her prattle was is questionable.

Back upstairs, I did a load of wash before T.V. time. Today, I have no plans, which is actually a relief, and I'm hoping Ellen will be back from her cruise, although I won't see her until tomorrow.

FRIDAY

Breakfast with Keith, but had barely started when Mary Ann texted me that she had arrived. This was only 8:13, so she was early, but that was okay, as I had already delivered my coffee things to the clubhouse. Mary Ann waited at the entrance for the others, while I went to check that the place was set up all right. It was, and the others came in, with the exception of Lennie, our leader, who's usually late.

The T.O.P.S. group consisted of Mary Ann, Cheryl, Katherine, Sharon, and Curleen, who had been slated to give the program. However, she brought her husband, Wally, along and he actually was the one who spoke. He is a retired doctor and he talked about diet, weight loss, and so on...talked and talked and talked and talked, in fact. He believes you should not eat anything after 4:00 p.m. because your liver and pancreas and all the other guys need to rest. My Orchard friend, Kathie, came as a guest and intends to join, so she'll be there next week at Trinity Lutheran, too.  Sharon wore an Asian dragon outfit... 

...along with earrings she had made herself: 

However, the weight news for me was grim: At home, I was up .08 to 138.4 and at T.O.P.S. up .09 to 139.9, on the brink of 140. Oh, me, oh, my, I MUST reform!

Lunch with Keith and Kathie and I restrained myself with simply a salad. After, I sat outside the clubhouse with my book and read for a time, then went back upstairs to prepare for Happy Hour. It featured three Irish dancers and was very engaging:

Back at my place, I did this and that before going down to dinner. Ate with Keith and Kathie, and Ursula joined us. Today, Mary Ann will pick me up at 9:15 and we'll join the "No Kings" rally at the county complex. 

THURSDAY

Before breakfast (with Keith, as Kathie had the best intentions, but didn't get there), I put in a white wash, retrieving it after. At 10:00, I went to a kind a info meeting with chef Michael and director Tiffany.  It was milding informative: we were apprised that new silverware (there didn't seem anything wrong with the old ones) were coming, plus luncheon salads would get more varied, plus other little nuances would be added. Actually, I'm mostly satisfied with the food and certainly, with food service. 

Lunch with Keith and Kathie, then I prepared the T.O.P.S. items to take to the clubhouse. They included coffee, cups, sugar, sweetener creamer, napkins, and a T.O.P.S. magazine. This morning, I'll take over the coffee maker; luckily, it's the individual serving kind, so is light. Mindy unlocked the clubhouse for us and we spent twenty minutes or so assembling the set up. I just followed how we have things at our usual meeting, then we put some chairs in a row for our audience.

Back at my apartment, I got instructions for charging the heart monitor and I think I'm pretty okay with it. I think some members will come to see my place, so I emptied the large box that was in the living room and dusted a bit. Took the box and trash to the laundry room to discard and the place looks reasonably neat.  

Dinner with Keith, but Kathie didn't show, not sure why. We had some good conversation, both amusing and insightful, so that was enjoyable. 

Slept well and got up at 5:00, which is all right with me; I'll nap after the meeting.

WEDNESDAY

Breakfast over, I frittered away the hour until it was time for the Balance With Jackie class at 10:00. Took a short walk around the complex after that, then joined Keith and Nancy for lunch. At 2:00, I went to Bingo, during which players could "buy" (for a dime apiece) up to four cards, which I did. I won a game and had a good time. 

Directly after, there was entertainment. Mindy had a Black guy named Aron in and he sang a number of songs, including many of good old Nat King Cole's. That naughty Mindy, our activities director, made Harvey Wallbangers, in which I indulged. Because I did, I skipped bringing my IPA to dinner. Had pulled pork, beans, and salad and a no-sugar ice cream for dessert, then went back up to assembly my dimes and quarters and straighten up a bit. Aron, the entertainer, had mentioned he was in a movie with Antonio Bandaris and I looked it up on Netflix. I just watched the first fifteen minutes or so and there was a Black man in a diner reading a newspaper--an extra with no lines, but that may have been him, not sure. 

I was so pleased that Mindy volunteered to make the flyer for tomorrow's T.O.P.S. meeting, which I'm organizing: 

She then had it put at every door, so we may have a fair amount of guests at the meeting. Both my meal companions, Keith and Kathie, are planning to come. 

Incredibly, this year there are three different graduations in my family: Mr. K., in Tokyo, is graduating from the equivalent of what we called grammar school, i.e., eighth grade; his mother videoed the ceremony, which I watched last night.  Then granddaughter Violet, in Singapore, is graduating from the equivalent of high school; and her sister, Vivian, is graduating from the University of Hawaii. I'm going to give each a token gift, plus money, the amounts calculated on their level of schooling, I guess.

Well, it's now 5:15 am on Thursday. I woke up a half hour ago because the heart monitor I'm wearing was flashing light--AAGH, what was this?! I had no idea what that meant and rushed to get the explanatory paper that came with the device. There was a number to call with questions and I did, with little hope it would be answered that early. It was, though--I think in Minnesota--and I was told it just needed to be charged. However, I'm not going to do that until I have better information on it, so I'm letting it flash.

Note on anger at the Cabrillo Cardiology Group: They switched the date I was to get fitted for the monitor several times, but I decided it was stupid and self-destructive to elaborate on it, so will just forget it.  

TUESDAY

 After breakfast, I again took a short nap, as I've been doing most days. I'm cautiously optimistic that this won't interfere with my sleep, as I've been sleeping well lately. 

Just fooled around with this and that until it was time to go down to lunch.  I was looking forward to it--shrimp and crab--and, actually, it was pretty good. Kathie didn't show, but I sat with Keith, as I've been doing regularly.

After, I just played some computer games until I was picked up at 3:15 and taken to the cardiologist. Appointment was for 4:00 and we were a half-hour early, but didn't get in until almost 4:30. I got the heat  monitor put on, with instructions, but it was all Greek to me and I'll have somebody else interpret it and show me what to do.* We finally left and went directly to Suzanne's for Vickie's retirement party. 

I had a wonderful time! It was so good to be with old friends and although Kay is a relatively new one, I like her, too. Suzanne had a good spread of veggies and dip, cranberry meatballs, and assorted other things, and Kay brought deviled eggs. As we always do, we brought our own drinks, Suzanne and Kay having non-alcoholic beer, Vickie and I red wine and IPA. We all talked and talked, of course, and laughed a lot, and didn't break up until after 8:00. These aren't very good pictures, but here we are last night: 

Kay

Suzanne and Vickie

Vickie took me home and on the way, offered to take me to see Jim some day; I'll certainly take her up on that. 

I found my new printer ink at my door; since it's a re-make or whatever they call it, I hope it works. 

* We were so angry with this outfit, Cabrillo Cardiology Group. Tomorrow, I'll list here the reasons for that. 

MONDAY

After breakfast with Keith (I had an omelet for a change), I straightened up a bit, then went down to the balance class. I'm getting to think it's beneficial for me--it certainly doesn't hurt. 

I was surprised when Kathie knocked on my door before lunch. She wanted to tell me about her problems with some other residents, whom I know, too. I don't want to go into detail, but we decided she, Keith, and I would be meal companions and let the two others follow their own path. Suits me fine.

Lunch was tilapia, which was pretty good, after which I was picked up at 1:30 to go to Second Wave Physical Therapy.  Was greeted and treated by Stacy, whom I really liked, and went through my paces. I have five other sessions scheduled and will continue balance and bone builders classes.  

Stopped at Office Depot, but was so annoyed at the price of printer ink ($72.95 plus tax) that I decided to look around. Home at 4:00 and ordered ink on-line (Epson 222XL) via credit card 2485. 

Ate dinner with Keith and Kathie, skipping the main offering in favor of a turkey burger and pickled beets. When I got back to my apartment, I found a text from Suzanne, changing the retirement party for Vickie to 5:30 because I probably wouldn't be able to get there by 5:00. So nice of her.

After dinner, I took my skirt and knitted coat to the laundry room and put them in a cold wash. When U retreived them, they looked okay and I hung them to dry in the shower.

Slept well, all the way to 6:15, which is good for me.